Questions couples frequently ask when hiring a Seattle Wedding DJ
Mostly, it’s the results. Couples tell me that they loved being able to relax at their own wedding, knowing their day was exactly what they they wanted.
And that they enjoyed having me as a partner throughout the whole process in creating a detailed plan and making it happen for them.
For engaged couples, the best advice I can give you is to try to make the planning process fun. Use it as a way to learn to more about yourselves as a couple and the ways you make decisions together.
Make an evening of it interviewing a DJ (or any vendor) and then go out to dinner and talk about what you liked or didn’t like about them. Sure, it can be hard to find the best Seattle Wedding DJ for YOU. But it’s worth it.
Interview as many DJs as it takes to find one who you’re really excited about.
For as long as I can remember, I was always that Music Guy, collecting music, hanging out at record stores, going to concerts (350+).
So when my friend Annie’s wedding DJ bailed on her four days before her wedding, she asked me to step in. I did and it was really satisfying.
I started to do other friends’ weddings and loved it so much that I choose to make it my career. (You can see more on the About Alan page.)
Yes indeed. You will be working with me the entire time. You won’t be “assigned” some cookie-cutter DJ by a DJ company that doesn’t care about you.
I’ll be your partner every step, from the very start to the end. I’ll get to know you and ask a lot of questions about what you want from your day. We’ll use that information develop a detailed plan that fits your personality.
And then it will be me all tuxed up and making things run smoothly on your night.
Absolutely. In fact, I set up separate complete sound systems – one for the ceremony and one for the reception. (And even a third for cocktail hour, if needed.)
For your wedding ceremony, I’ll mic both the officiant and groom with small wireless lapel mics so that your guests will be able to hear everything nicely. If you have live musicians, I’ll coordinate to run their sound through my system. If you have readers, I’ll make sure they have wireless handheld mics.
Absolutely. Behind the scenes, I’m working in closely with the caterer, photographer and other vendors, to ensure that the itinerary stays on track and that we all work together to keep the evening flowing smoothly.
As the MC, I’m giving the guests all the information they need about what’s going on and what’s coming up.
In fact, I take the role of MC so seriously, that I’ve flown to Atlanta, Minneapolis, San Jose, Las Vegas to take workshops on just that skill. (I’ve even taken a two-day workshop just on the skill of doing customized Grand Entrances.)
My philosophy is to serve as a host, make sure that your guests feel welcomed and involved. I am a skilled and confident MC. People say that my friendly and outgoing personality comes through.
But the night is not about me and I don’t feel a need to be the center of attention. You’ll never hear me talking just because I really like my own voice. This is YOUR special day, not mine.
So mostly, I want to give your guests all the information and guidance they need. And hopefully a few laughs along the way.
Couples who believe it’s a significant decision find the best wedding DJ for them — that their DJ will play a major role in the success of their reception.
Couples who want to make sure their guests have fun. Offbeat couples who want a partner who embraces their ideas. Couples who have cultural traditions they want to incorporate in their their day.
Couples who are open minded about advice and suggestions on what may or may not work. Personality-wise, couples whose friends describe them as down-to-earth.
Couples who think all DJs are the same and just want someone to hit “play” on some music. Couples looking for a “club” atmosphere. Couples who want their DJ to play Y.M.C.A. and dress all the groomsmen in outfits, to play an inflatable guitar and to nag their guests to get out on the dancefloor. Couples who are mostly looking for the cheapest price. Couples who don’t want suggestions or advice.
It’s hard to describe the incredible satisfaction of helping someone’s wedding go perfectly. The best reward in any job that I’ve ever had, is the big warm hug at the end of the night where an exhausted, but happy couple says, “Alan, that is EXACTLY what we wanted.”
Glad you asked. I am a full-time Seattle DJ. This is my profession and I’m committed to it. I invest quite a bit in training and equipment so that I can give you my best. It’s not a hobby or something I do “on the side.”
I REALLY want your guests to hear the emotions in your vows, hear the inflections of those giving toasts and (selfishly) hear announcements that I make. So I use high-end audio professional equipment. The sound quality is outstanding.
I use the best Bose L1 Tower speakers, which sound great (and look quite nice.) My mixer is the Denon DN-MC600 and I keep looking neat in a case by Odyssey. For ceremonies (or when I’m integrating live instruments into my system), I use a Mackie 1202-VLZ4 mixer. As for mics, I use have a Sennheiser lapel mics that I typically put on the officiant and groom for the ceremony and Sennheiser hand held mics for readings, announcements and toasts. I ALWAYS have backup equipment with me, so I’m prepared.
We have as many planning meetings as we need to cover EVERYTHING. From Grandma Shirley’s walk down the aisle to the details of your final send off, I’ll throw out ideas for activities that feel like a good fit for your personalities.
Some you’ll like. And some you won’t. That’s OK.
Many couples tell me our wedding planning meetings were some of the most fun times they had in the whole process.
From this, we’ll draw up a comprehensive timeline and itinerary that will include the music, announcements and the flow of all the elements of the event. (Be prepared to feel a great sense of relief seeing it all on paper.)
Of course, you can. The night should reflect your personalities and a lot of that can be reflected by the music that is meaningful to you.
So what you say is what I’ll play. (That must be somebody’s slogan somewhere.)
However, if you just want to give me general guidance like a few songs, artists or genres that you like, I’m happy to fill in as much as you like. I am a DJ after all! I have detailed wedding music song lists that I’ll share with you.
You’ll have your own personal website, where you’ll have access to all my wedding music ideas and an on-line database of 70,000+ songs (organized into lots of helpful wedding music song lists.)
You can designate songs as “must play,” “if possible,” or “do not play.” But if you have your own wedding music ideas, I’m happen to take them in whatever form is convenient for you: on your phone, in a spreadsheet or wherever. We can even create shared playlists on Spotify.
Easy. I will simply buy it from Amazon or iTunes. (And, of course, it’s on me.)
Definitely. Requests are such a fun way to involve guests in the dancing part of the night.
I love requests so much that I invite your guests to make their own requests on-line before your event. They’ll get to see my top wedding DJ dance songs and make their own selections. That helps them really feel like a part of the reception before it even starts. (And, of course, I’m taking requests at your reception as well.)
I’ll say it quite diplomatically (you are the customer after all), but I’ll definitely give you candid advice based on my experience. I think it would be DJ malfeasance if just I didn’t give the benefit of my experience.
I’ll play it or do. No question. It is your wedding and I am there to support you.
Some couples hate them, considering them to be overused wedding songs. (Enough that some DJ’s market themselves as “Non-Cheesy Wedding DJ” and boast that won’t ever play them.)
Other couples consider some of them to be some of the most fun wedding songs and love the idea of dancing to them at their wedding. Some families RUN to the dance floor to share in them.
The only thing that matters, though, is what YOU think. On your planning form, I’ll ask you for your comments on each of them and then respect your wishes. It’s your wedding. I even have a list of the most common cited “do not play” songs for weddings.
I am committed to making sure that you get the best results from each of your professionals. For example:
- Your officiant will sound clear.
- Your caterer’s food will be served hot, because the Grand Entrance was performed on time.
- Your photographer will get the best shots of your toasts, because they’ll happen where the light and background are the best and I’ll coach the people giving toasts on where to stand.
- Your videographer will get a clean recording of everything from the soundboard.
I don’t judge myself on whether the music was great. I judge myself on whether your whole wedding day was great. And a large part of that is helping to make sure that you got the best from everybody on your team.
Well, yes, I can’t deny that. Thank you for noticing.
I’ve been a Seattle Wedding DJ for many years, so I know most of the Seattle wedding venues quite well. But if you’re getting married somewhere new to me, I would definitely do a “site visit” so that I can make informed recommendations about how everything should flow. In fact, it can be a convenient place for our wedding planning meetings.
I arrive around 2-3 hours prior to the event to set up and make adjustments for optimal sound performance before any guests arrive. There are occasions where the venue has a shorter setup time and I can work within whatever timing the venue offers.
I plan to wear a tux. For one, it’s classic. Additionally, when I give your guests information, it gives me a little more credibility. (I’m not sure that “DJ Dude,” wearing his retro Metallica t’shirt and cut-offs is going to get your guests to pay attention to the introductions or toasts. Or anything.)
Yes. This is my profession and I treat it as such.
No. On your wedding day, I am totally devoted to you and your event. And that’s all I do.
I want to focus on being the best DJ that I can for you on your day. In and of itself, that takes a lot of commitment.
I don’t want to be distracted worrying about how some logo is stuck on the screen from a previous event or how some printer isn’t working. It’s your wedding. All I want to do is rock it for you.
I am a Seattle Mariners nut, so if there’s a baseball component to your event, I would be a good person to talk to. (My wife walked down the aisle to the theme from “The Natural.”)
I have been a Seahawks season-ticket holder since 2002, so I’m happy to brainstorm ways to bring the feeling of CenturyLink Field to your event.
Also, if you are a Bruce Springsteen fan, we will have a strong bond.
Let’s see how many ways can I say it: No, nada, uh uh, fuggedaboudit, not going to happen.
One fixed price = everything I can do for you. Believe me, I want to “up-sell” you even less than you want to be “upsold.”
For more on my wedding DJ pricing in Seattle , check out my page: Wedding DJ Prices Seattle.
Typically, we connect by phone and if we all feel like it’s a good fit, we’d get together in person for a zero-pressure chat over coffee. (I encourage couples to do all the research they can to find the best wedding DJ for them.)
When you tell me that you’d like me to be your wedding DJ, I’ll set up a website for you with planning forms, wedding music ideas, a contract that we sign electronically and a payment gateway. A $500 deposit secures your date and the remainder is due on or before the day of the event.
Absolutely. I think it’s a great idea to understand our mutual expectations. You can view a sample here: Seattle Wedding DJ Contract.
Cash, checks, Paypal, Visa, Mastercard and American Express. You can make on-line payments through your custom website.
But, if you are looking for someone on short notice, it is still worth contacting me. (If I am not available, I would be happy to refer you to another local professional.)
Yes. In addition to weddings throughout Washington, I have done weddings in Oregon, Idaho, Montana, Colorado and Kentucky.
Sure, I would be happy to provide you with references (and hope that after your event you’ll agree to be a reference for me). In the meantime, I encourage you to read more on my reviews for Seattle wedding DJ page.
Yes, I am more than happy to meet with you to get to know you and share some of my ideas with you about your event. It’s not a sales pitch. I enjoy meeting new people and realize the wedding planning process can be intimidating, so it’s fun to help.